Thursday, June 24, 2021

The First Drive

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The first drive from Virginia to Cape May, NJ was a success but not at all what we expected.  We had planned our route well, our stops, and even allotted extra time for traffic.  Unfortunately for us though, we planned as if we were driving a regular car.  I'm sure it is no surprise that our trip took way longer than we expected!  We left Culpeper, VA at 5:00 PM and expected to make the 4.5-hour journey to Cape May in about 5.5 hours.  We got on the road and immediately realized EVERYTHING was going to take longer than we had expected since we were driving a giant SAIL down the road!  Our mantra for the drive was "Slow and steady stays alive!"  As soon as we got over the shock of our new reality, we hit DC and Baltimore traffic.  No explanation need there.  Then the hangrys set in so we found the nearest Chick-fil-a, which is when we confronted our next challenge, parking.  Well, I thought I was pretty slick by parking across five spots, nosing into the corner curb.  When I returned to the RV with arms full of chicken, Sarah let me know the locals greeted her with jeers, swears, and one-finger salutes, so we promptly backed out and hid behind the mini-mall to enjoy our dinner.  On the positive side, we all sat around the table and ate together.  Back on the road, we headed up RT 95 only to see signs prohibiting our RV from going through the Baltimore tunnels.  I guess since we are carrying propane in the RV (which runs the refrigerator and hot water heater) we are considered a hazard and a rolling bomb.  Fortunately, we caught a glimpse of a sign listing 695 as the alternate route but it didn't happen to say which direction to go for Cape May.  After a quick jaunt in the wrong direction and a slightly sketchy u-turn, we were marching on, still not 100% sure how we were getting around the harbor.  Waze, my trusty GPS, had no idea we were driving an RV so it kept trying to re-route us back through the tunnel and we were flying blind until it gave up and plotted us a course over the Key bridge.  At this point, our anxiety was high but the reward for us "riding the wave" was a beautiful sunset!  I watched the road and everyone else watched the sunset.  I'm told it was spectacular. 

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From this point on it was pretty easy driving.  We kept our speed down around 60-65 which is where we felt most in control of the vehicle.  Any faster and I needed to keep a death grip on the steering wheel to stay between the lines.  We stopped 3 more times for bathroom breaks and to pick up supplies at WAWA once we were an hour from our destination.  The other thing we noticed while driving was how LOUD it is inside.  Somewhere around 9:30, Charlie started falling asleep but the RV sounded like a falling building with every bump in the road.  With the camper full of every supply needed for civilized life, including food, coffee maker, pots and pans, etc,, it should have been no surprise, but we weren't expecting the noise and no one slept.  

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We rolled into our campground around 12:30 AM, about 7.5 hours after the start.  The site attendant stuck a map on the bulletin board for us and we desperately tried to quietly drive the V10 powered rig into our spot.  With lights shut off, we backed into our first camping spot, killed the engine, and hooked up our electricity.  WHEW!  We made it.  We got everyone to bed fairly quickly and I simply stared at the ceiling for another 2.5 hours while the Dr. Pepper caffeine that powered me through the night drive continued to run its course.  But we were here, safe, and excited for the first full day of our vacation. 

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Up Next... Cape May.  Spoiler Alert!  You have to go there!

The Pick-Up

We rented our RV from a private owner through rvshare.com. The entire rental experience was excellent and the owner promptly responded to ALL my questions throughout the process. I'll post more about how and why we picked the RV we did later. First I'll share a little bit about our packing and pick-up. One fear, which was compounded when we barely fit everything in the Tahoe, was if we packed TOO much and where it would all fit in the RV.  We all squeezed into the truck and made our way about a 1.5-hour drive to the owner's house.  Sarah and I both had a nervous "moment of truth" feeling in our stomach as we pulled onto the street since we had only communicated through text and the RVShare website.  The "what ifs" momentarily kicked in, but were gone the minute we saw the RV in the driveway!  It is perfect!

The owner, Kenneth was fantastic and gave us a good 45-minute walk through every system, subsystem, and even the waste system.  We signed some forms, he handed us the keys, and we were officially off! 



We drove 15 minutes to Sarah's sister's house where we transferred everything from the Tahoe to the RV.  Surprisingly, the RV has an enormous amount of storage and we could have packed MORE!  


Everything fit and everyone had a spot!  Nothing left to do but say goodbye to Tracy and Allen and hit the road! We are off!  It was a perfect launch!!   Up next, the first hours on the road.

Wednesday, June 23, 2021

Family RV Trip - Departure Day

Our home for the next 10 days!
Today is the day!  

After months of planning, preparation, worrying, (a little arguing), and excited conversation, today is the day we start our first RV trip! 

We have everything staged in three places in the house and we are using every available inch in the Tahoe to move our essentials from the house to the  RV rental rendezvous point.

Here are our main concerns:

  • Did we pack too much?
  • Where will we fit all our clothes in the camper?
  • Is it a camper or an RV?
  • Will we make it to the first campground before dark?
  • Do we have enough snacks?
Seriously though, this is our first family trip in an RV, and as well as we prepared through reading and advice from friends, we are all filled with - let's call it excitement!  I'm sure our nervous energy will subside a bit once we are on the road.  We are traveling with a teenager and our special needs almost-10-year-old, so we have some anxiety around keeping as close to our normal life schedule as possible, but I am quite confident in their resilience and ability to be flexible.  Besides, this is vacation, so we can adjust as needed without consequence.  

We are ready, we are packed (mostly) and my mantra for this trip is "ride the wave" which means we will happily float on top of whatever the trip's current brings our way.  If we forget something or need something we will go without or find it along the way.  If it rains, we will play in puddles, if we have meltdowns, we will have patience with each other, and we will soak up every minute of the journey, giving thanks for being able to take this trip.  

Sarah and I hope to upload a note or video each day so stay tuned for updates.



The First Drive

The first drive from Virginia to Cape May, NJ was a success but not at all what we expected.  We had planned our route well, our stops, and ...